Free Mind of A Free Man

To be happy is not always about having a lot of virtual friends whom you don’t even know if they’re true. To be happy is as simple as having few number of friends who can come when you get injured or when you have to stay at hospital. To be happy is not always about having luxury cars or having that things which label “fancy”. To be happy is as simple as walking in sun shiny day and bring your old walk-man listen to happy song. To be happy is not always about sitting there in a luxury restaurant and eating expensive food with your tuxedo or your fancy mini dress. To be happy is as simple as bring your friend or relatives or your love to come in your house, together make a dishes for dinner, and laughing while somebody filled wrong ingredients in the food. To be happy is not always about travelling around the world with first-class airplane, to be happy is as simple as explore strange town in your country and found an old village with people and kids gathering, chattering withou...

“What bests in man’s life is having a woman who want through all the happy and sad moments to live life together” That’s phrase was continued running in my mind, and remembered one song from 311 and taylor swift “Two is better than one”. Sometimes i frustrated about being single in my age, sometimes I feel jealousy when look at two happy couple whom enjoy their relationship and never worry about anything. Yes of course it because of my worries, I worried too much about having relationship, I could saying that I’m kind a conservative person in what I belief in one relationship. So what I think that kind a man like me thought about having relationship? First I think relationship is one of most serious thing in people’s life, it’s about you trust someone to get in to yourlife and knowing all of bad and good side about your self. I’m kind a man who won’t let haphazard people to get in my life and know that much about my self, It’s quite hard to place trust on someone, right? It’s too ...

Here’s another insp iring film. D olphin Tale, when I write this I was still freezing and some of my mind got real peaceful feeling. Peace, that’s one word which can describe this film, you know what I mean because I got the peace after watched this film. This film tell us about stories of Boy who turn on something that he really loved to, as always people said that love is not just about men and women. It can be with many things, just like in this film love between a men and animal. What make this film more awesome caused this film based on true story, story of struggled of men to helps this dolphin back to swim with her tail. Well, I think I start to making confuse, I will start to tell the story. Sawyer was an introvert and type of ki d s wh o had easil y to bullied in his school. It makes him bad when his cousin Kyle decided to go to military school and left him. Slawyer’s like lost his excitement of life, he’s oftenly late for school, not doing his homework, and abandoned of ...

It’s been my very first time post in this beginning of 2012. Some people might write about some positively optimistic things on their blog to start a year, yet I choose to write this kind of maybe a sorrow post just to devote what I’ve been feeling right now. I believe that all people in this world had ever feel like losing something, losing one word could be related to many things . It could be something you can feel with your body or something that you can just only feel in your heart or it can be both in the same time. You may cause part of empty room in your daily life when you lose a thing, day after you start to miss that lost thing. Now, I wanna talk about losing something that might be caused kind of deep sense of loss in your whole daily life, that is losing someone that you love. What do you know about loss? Some people maybe could yelled at my face about this. I don’t know much about losing, I don’t want to act like an expert of this probs. But based on my own experienced ...

I do promise that I want to write about the journey of KTF UI, a group of dance which I’ve been in since sSeptember 2010. First I had never imagine that I can go abroad with mission to spreading Indonesian traditional music and dance, I can’t even do dancing, and I bet I used to be bad dancer ever. This chance come from my close friend Cessa. She’s invited me to join KTF, but I told her, I’m not that good in that kind of motoric activity, but when she offered me a chance to representate Indonesia in Europe through dancing. I have no word beside YES I’M IN ! Cessa introduced me to Milla, she’s the dance couch of KTFUI and with my Nandak in Abnon experienced she’s obviously believe that I can do dancing. Then I had some interview with KTF founder named Anneke and Olla, after they finally made decision that I deserved to join. KTF didn’t have any guy member since the first time its found, this cultural mission made KTF need to recruit some guy. Here we are, after some close reqruitement p...

Here comes my new family with great people inside. I have to admit that being one of finalist Abang None Jakarta is one of my childhood dream, yeah when I was kid I saw in television ( I forgot the year), but I know after watched that show, I had plan in my mind, I have to become one of them. And it becomes true. I had join kind a same competition before Kang None Banten province, I got the second place, that was when I’m still 16 years old sounds too young to win that kind of competition. Yet, being finalist of Abang None is a different thing, because it’s more precious and I could say it’s worth for my future. The Abang None Jakarta stories goes on my age of 19.. First I decided to fill the form, I was quite a shy introvert person, with half afro hair, dark skin, and I just newly graduated from my Senior High School. But mother of God, I passed the test interview and took the 5th place or 4th Runner up. I got better confidence to face people around, with my broadcasting background ...

Today I went to Gelora Bung Karno, Senayan with Cessa, Ayip, and Shalita. We will watch our friend Aming, Olla, Novely, and Bani perform "Bajidor Kahot" dance for Indonesia Youth and Sport Festival. They performed at 13.30, we arrived there at 12.30, so after met them Me, Shalita, and Ayip still have an hour spare time. We decided to walk around the festival, there are many booths there, foods, organizations, we can ask more about many Youth organization, most of them are working on culture, leadership, global relationship, and knowledge. we continue walking then we found another festival, that's like Japanese Culture Festival. There are one booth that attract our attention, Ship For Japan South East Youth Program, one old man come to us and explained about this program, how to register, and what will you do during this program, I amazed with the way this man explained us, he tell us for increase awareness about the scholarship and program to exchange abroad, he said that...

So this is my first time after three and a half months I never visit home, I enjoyed my self in with my daily life in my student flat, sometimes I come home just for taking my stuffs I need, I come to my mother house more often. first I just have no idea about what should i do at Saturday after finished class, I went to mechanic to fix my motorbike, it's done just in 20 mins , I don't wanna spent another Saturday night alone, then I decided to go home to take some stuffs and meet my sisters. come home, my sister was in a nap, and my other sister was hang out with her bf. so I'm alone, it;s bored, then I remember that was on July my ex said that she sent me a package of gift for my birthday, I haven't see the package, so I looked for it, yeah it's already in my bedroom, I opened the wrap and gotcha, I opened my very late birthday gift from my ex girlfriend. she gave me an angry bird pillow, its nice and she wrote me a notes, so sweet, thanks God I can still make a ...

There’s nothing to worry about when start this Friday, just like another day, sun rises, weather is hot like usual and yep everythings just happened like another day in october. I went to my campus, wear my white poloshirt and jeans, I thought that today the sun will shine and hot, so I prefer not to wear any kind of clothes which can made me sweating. But, for God sake I had make wrong guess about today’s forecast, hard rain comes in the middle of the day when I still in the class. That was very first hard rain that I’ve met since I’ve been studied in this new building of my campus, actually this new building construction is not already finished yet. There are several side that must have to be conastructed, such as laboratory, canteen, field, library, gymnasium, and many more (that’s why I always think that this building shouldn’t have to be use, its building must be finished before I could say it’s suitable). There are some question when first time I went to this building for study,...

What is a real man? How to become a real man? And what makes a man different from a woman beside their sex organ? what makes a man different from boy and guy? At the age of 20, I think this is the age when almost men thinking and questioning, are they really have become a real man or they still a guy even a boy? So this is question that round in my mind also. We have grow, and we get many responsibility as well, we will start thinking of future, think that maybe at 6 -8 next years we have to pay bills for our marriage party , start to think how to make money for our future family, how to lead our family, think that we will be a father for children, how do we will teach them become a man, and how to make our wife feels that a man in front of her is a man that she can trust her body even their soul to be protected. To be honest, I didn’t get any lessons for this case from my father, since I’ve been living as a guy from broken home family from the age of 10 and I live with my mom, there’...

Today, after finished broadcast at my station, I met Agatha unintentionally. Agatha used to be my senior at 107,9 rtc ui fm my station, but now she’s already graduated from college (cause my station is a student radio station) and being accepted to one of private radio in Jakarta. She was coming with my friend Nadya, randomly I asked her whether she have any broadcast schedule in her station or not, and Nadya’s laughing. Why? Because Agatha is in consideration to resign from his private radio she work for, the reason is.. she’s accepted in one of big company which working on public goods, and the company offer good salary and either good position to her. I was happy to hear about that news, but she didn’t ! wonder why? Because being in that company means that Agatha must take off her position in her radio. She’s announcer in that radio, and announcing is her passion as well. Taking off something that you always really love to do is harder than you think, even the company offer you 10 ...

Duduk di kafe dengan pemandangan langsung keluar, melihat pergantian dari siang berganti sore kemudian sore berganti senja, perjalanan waktu. Gue sempet mikir gimana kalo gue bisa jadi penjelajah waktu, bisa ketemu sama orang yang nanti akhirnya jadi pendamping hidup gue (tssaaaah) mikirin hal ini gue jadi inget sama satu film karya sutradara Robert Schwentke, yang nyeritain tentang seorang cowok (Henry) yang ditakdirin jadi petualang waktu (time traveler). Hal ini terjadi tiba – tiba saat dia masih berumur kaya 7tahunan, dia ada di kecelakaan mobil sama ibunya, dan tiba – tiba dia menghilang dan ada di waktu dua minggu sebelum hari itu, dan kemudian dia balik lagi ke tempat dimana ia tabrakan. Well, dia selamat dari tabrakan maut itu, meanwhile nyokapnya meninggal seketika disana. Disitu doi ngerasa bingung banget sama apa yang terjadi, sampe akhirnya seseorang which is adalah dia waktu udah agak dewasa dateng, dan ngejelasin ke dia apa yang terjadi dan lalu. Kemudian Henry dewasa pu...

seeing many people who shared stories, I realize that every stories have a positve value if we listen and give our attention. Inspiring stories from inspiring people always make them amazing. I always feels grateful when I realize I live here surrounded by amazing people who has a great stories to share about, listening to others who have just two or three years older than me embrace me to prepare my self well. In this age of me at least I know, there’s many things I could do outside. I ever thought that my age give some boundaries to develop my self, but I’m totally wrong. There’s a tousand chances open for us, the problem is how we find that chance and step a head from others, when we go older don’t let ourself being dissapointed and sorry for every chance we passed. The truth is everyone has value in their life, we can learnt for everyone, even a homeless people in corner of road, they teach us how to survives in every condition. And we, we has our own values we may not realize it b...

Gue ngeliat 5 orang sahabat yang lagi ngopi bareng, gelak tawa mereka bikin banyak mata orang – orang di kafe ini mengarah ke mereka, kaya pengen tau, apa sih yang lagi mereka ketawain? Apapun yang mereka ketawain, gue yakin, mereka bakal terus inget sama moment – moment kaya gitu, saat mereka ketawa bareng, dan kaya ga ada beban di kepala mereka. Ngeliat keakraban mereka gue jadi inget sama salah satu buku yang baru aja selesai gue baca. Buku ini nyeritain tentang lima sekawan, yang namanya Genta, Arial, Riani, Ian, sama Zafran. Yap, gue yakin sebagian besar kita juga sudah tau buku apa yang gue maksud 5cm karangan Donny Dhirgantoro. Buku ini nyeritain kisah 5 sahabat yang dengan karakteristik berbeda – beda selalu bersama dari SD hingga sekarang mereka berumur sekitar20 – tahunan. Karakteristik dasar mereka adalah anak muda yang pintar, berwawasan luas, dan attraktif. Hidup mereka selalu penuh sama filosofi – filosofi, lirik – lirik lagu, quotes dari film, dan kadang – kadang random ...

Short term memory loss can be a symptom of many things including disease, psychological, dyslexia, problems including depression, injury, infection, a side effect of medication or chronic drug and alcohol abuse. While aging may include short term memory loss, it is not usually a cause of the condition itself, and is considered normal. 1. Consult a doctor if your memory loss is chronic or interferes with your everyday life. Your doctor can help you identify the cause and eliminate serious conditions such as Alzheimer's disease, brain trauma and more. 2. Understand that information in short term memory is stored in the brain for only a few seconds (around 18). You can also bring information from long term memory into short term memory, such as when you recall a phone number. 3. Short term memory is where we process information that we are thinking about. Another word for it is 'Working Memory'. Information in short term memory is either committed to long term memory or it is ...

Friendster, Myspace, Facebook, Twitter, Tagged, Skype, Formspring, MSN, yahoo, kaskus, and many others kind of social forum. that's all we called Social networking to make us still connected with our friends, stay update with what happening around the world. basically, from the essentials social networking have good uses for us, it's enlarge our society and open up our mind with everything arround us. social network have a big role in this modern life, people spent much time for sit nicely in front of their laptop or cellphones which is use internet connection just to know what is happened to their friends outside, and make some conversation, talk everything they want. sometimes this social phenomena help us to do many things, make our life simple when we need fast forwarding in doin our task, or duty. But when it comes too much and affected our life too deep, its bring some disadvantages. have you ever felt it? I did. So how we solve this and using this stuffs as use as we can...

Indonesia.. negara dengan lebih dari 200juta penduduk, dan memiliki angka kelahiran yang besar tiap tahunnya. Negara yang memiliki letak amat strategis yang diapit oleh dua benua juga dua samudera, memiliki beribu-ribu kebudayaan dan seni tradisional yang patut dibanggakan, memiliki sumber daya alam yang melimpah ruah, dengan iklim tropis yang memberikan kesuburan sepanjang tahun. Negara dengan kekayaan pulau, juga negara yang gambarnya dengan apik terpampang di trophy emas piala dunia. Namun sangat disayangkan kemegahan bangsa ini, masih tidak dapat diakui dan dibanggakan oleh banyak penduduknya, banyak orang Indonesia sendiri yang bahkan menyepelekan bangsa ini, tak heran bahwa negara kita masih dianggap remeh oleh bangsa lain. Dengan kekayaan yang dimiliki Indonesia, Negara ini mempunyai potensi yang sangat besar untuk maju dan berkembang di seluruh sektor, baik dari segi ekonmomi, sosial - budaya, pertahanan - keamanan,industrialisasi, pariwisata, juga sektor lainnya. namun apa yan...

ga bisa dipungkiri kadang - kadang orang tua ngasih beberapa tekanan ke anaknya. mulai dari tekanan harus jadi seperti apa anaknya? bagaimana anak harus ngejalanin hidup tetap di jalan yang dipilihkan oleh orangtua? sampai ke hal bagaimana anak harus selalu menurut dan tidak boleh memberikan pembelaan sama sekali saat di dikte oleh orang tua. memang benar sebagai anak, kita harus menuruti semua omongan orangtua, tapi bagaimana dengan orangtua? apakah sudah semua orangtua tahu dan menyadari apa yang diinginkan anaknya? terkadang anak hanya bisa diam mendengar dikte dari orangtua dan hanya bisa pasrah ketika di cap sebagai anak yang ini dan itu. anak remaja yang beranjak dewasa (sekitar 18 - 20 tahun) memiliki keinginan dan passionnya masing - masing, meskipun banyak anak yang hingga mencapai umur itu belum menemukan hal apa yang akan membawanya kepada kesuksesan kelak. orangtua disini memang memiliki peran yang besar sebagai petunjuk arah, orangtua boleh mengungkapkan keinginan atas ana...